Whenever I talk with Dan, he usually asks the hard questions, and it's good too.

I don't have many people who I allow in my head quite like that - most can't even think past the typicals. But I appreciate it, because it reminds me that I need to be more thoughtful of many things I often overlook.

and sometimes the only thing I'm left with after the conversations is, "I just don't know what I want anymore." Then I realize that I need some scratch paper, and to write out what things I need and are important. Then write out what things I want and come secondary.

Maybe I just need to go on a date. Or go out for some drinks. Or spend the weekend in, and not do anything with anyone.

I still want my 10 year goals, but I need a lot of praying and planning and refiguring out-ing. Right now all I can process is how much I haven't gotten done. But the good news is, I'll buy this bib for my kid when I'm a daddy:

My kids will be cooler than yours.