Rugged and Refined

There's not much of a difference between a gentleman and a mountain man. I mean to say, a proper gentleman, and a real mountain man. The contrast is in the polish, but otherwise, they are the same man.

Etiquette and manners is essentially consideration and respect. A gentleman stands when a lady approaches the table, enters a room, or upon the exchange of salutations. He holds the door open, offers to light her cigarette, gives her his coat when there's a chill or sign of rain, and always esteems her with the utmost respect. He isn't afraid to work hard, and in fact he does. He will be sure to speak his mind, but with thought and poise. His respect for the common man transcends his personal preferences. He knows his personal preferences, and there's an elegance in his confidence. He is refined and outstanding.

A mountain man works hard to provide food, shelter, protection and comfort for his woman, and family if applicable. His attire suits him for his needs pertaining to the season, and he always shows himself presentable after a long day's work. He fights off wolves and hostile natives to defend his woman and his plot. He tames horses and bridles oxen for their braun and power. His kindredness and hospitality are known throughout the land for those who perhaps wander along his way. His giving hand is reinforced by his working arm. He works hard, and isn't afraid to get dirty. He has his principles and convictions, and with him belongs the utmost respect and attentive ear. He knows his personal preferences, and enjoys the fruit of God's creation. There's a sophistication to his simple life, yet he is rugged and outstanding.

Different times, different places, different appearances, but these men are entirely too much the same because of character and integrity. And even more so that God has made them both. These personifications can also be held by the same man; inseparable except for what the eye perceives.

It's not like that...I promise.